Posted on Thursday 30 October 2008
ArditaC asked:
I am about to turn 33. I just married a fantastic guy and have a generally good and happy life. But I have been very lazy for about a year now and am very dissatisfied with my professional and personal progress. Often I feel like I am not good at anything and it makes me less likely to try at anything. Like recently I went on a trip and did not even really try to take good photos. Often I go to work and do little to nothing. I waste lots of time and have started watching tv. I have gained weight and am not in good physical shape. Sometimes I am bitchy or less interested in other people than I feel I should be. I really would like to turn this around and be a good productive person who has a lot of fun and lives life to the fullest. I am unsure about what avenues I should pursue and how to try hard and focus on things I could be good at. I feel I am too old to waste time on things I am not good at. I would appreciate any advice - especially from people who have felt like this before and have overcome it.
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I am about to turn 33. I just married a fantastic guy and have a generally good and happy life. But I have been very lazy for about a year now and am very dissatisfied with my professional and personal progress. Often I feel like I am not good at anything and it makes me less likely to try at anything. Like recently I went on a trip and did not even really try to take good photos. Often I go to work and do little to nothing. I waste lots of time and have started watching tv. I have gained weight and am not in good physical shape. Sometimes I am bitchy or less interested in other people than I feel I should be. I really would like to turn this around and be a good productive person who has a lot of fun and lives life to the fullest. I am unsure about what avenues I should pursue and how to try hard and focus on things I could be good at. I feel I am too old to waste time on things I am not good at. I would appreciate any advice - especially from people who have felt like this before and have overcome it.
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